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Top Tips For Devouring Vulva

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Top Tips For Devouring Vulva 

 

Top tips for devouring vulva:

Oral sex has historically always been associated with foreplay. The playing before the actual act of penetration.

 

For a lot of men and women this is seen as an expectation by our partner and can often be a chore because of this expectation.

 

We have to create a very loving relationship with our partners special bits because the manner in which you relate to them will often dictate the degree of openness your partner will show to making love.

 

TIP1: saliva, saliva and more saliva. Our bodies have varied tastes and aromas which at times may or may not be very appealing especially if you have a very sensitive olfactory system. When going down the aid of saliva helps in not only lubricating but also dissolves potential tastes you may not be familiar with.

 

TIP2: the whole vulva has varied sensitivities and sensations for your partner. Why not explore the full range her of vulva by expanding your field of vision and include the areas around the clitoris extending all the way to her inner thighs. Feel the different textures of her skin in all these areas and savour each one. Allow yourself to appreciate every area and fully immerse yourself in the experience.

 

TIP3: press your tongue into her vulva. The depth of your tongue of course will depend on how long it is but nonetheless this will add something new. By not making the clitoris the sole focus of the experience for her, ask yourself what your intention is. Is this act of play about arousing all her sexual senses and making the pleasure about her, or is the intention about bringing her to orgasm. As men we are solution focused most of the time and the orgasm is often the solution. By allowing yourself to be with the experience she will note your enjoyment and no doubt will enjoy the experience in reciprocation. 

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