The RDBSMA System

Six things worth saying before intimacy, not after

Relationship status. Desires. Boundaries. Sexual status. Meaning. Aftercare. Six conversations, in that order, covering the things most people hope will be understood without being said.

The manual gives you the words for each one, and shows you how to open the conversation without it turning into an interrogation.

With this manual, you will:

• Know where you both actually stand rather than assuming, and finding out later that you assumed differently.
• Say what you want and what you will not do in language that invites an answer rather than closing one down.
• Understand why aftercare matters as much as consent and what it looks like in practice.

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